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What is virginity in the modern world of rather freewheeling views on sensuality - is it something each person must cherish and never lose till he/she feels that the rightest time has arrived, or maybe it’s just another stage of our life crossing which opens the door to an active sex life?
Whether to cherish or to lose your virginity is you own choice only, remember that nobody has a single right to push on you or emotionally blackmail you just. Don’t forget to listen to your both heart and mind before you make your final choice.
Trust is a crucial point in a relationship of two people, and it’s especially important when a person decides to lose his/her virginity with his/her partner. Trust takes time to develop, so make sure you have worked well enough on it before you make your good-bye-to-virginity decision.
Before making an ultimate decision to lose your virginity you must be well aware of the fact that first sex is a huge responsibility for both your partner and yourself, keep it somewhere in the back of your aroused mind and don’t forget to buy condoms.
Virginity and the Issue of Trust
Trust is a crucial point in a relationship of two people, and it's especially important when a person decides to lose his/her virginity with his/her partner. Trust takes time to develop, that's why make sure you have worked well enough on it before you make your good-bye-to-virginity decision.
Let's look at the subject of trust from the practical angle and try to forecast the situation if you lose your virginity with a person you do not trust to, what results can it bring? First, you will scarcely feel comfortable when that very moment arrives – partially because of your doubts and insecurities, partially due to your partner's distrustful nature.
Second, you will most likely be disappointed in the long run, disappointed and regretful. Milder outcome will imply pure emptiness inside when you try to revive the image of your first man/woman when some time passes, you will simply feel that he or she may have happened or may haven't happened to you – who knows... - which is a not too desirable outcome, wouldn't you agree?
And now let's consider possible result of virginity-loss case between two people who love each other and base their relationship on honestly and never-ending and never-shaky trust, what results can crown such type of first experience? First, complete relaxation and satisfaction from your first time are practically guaranteed when the whole thing is based on trust. Second, you will never have unpleasant or insecure aftertaste as a result of your first sensual experience with a person you are spiritually connected to, with the person you trust completely. You will have pleasant memories of your 'first time' even if you will eventually part due to certain circumstances.