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What is virginity in the modern world of rather freewheeling views on sensuality - is it something each person must cherish and never lose till he/she feels that the rightest time has arrived, or maybe it’s just another stage of our life crossing which opens the door to an active sex life?
Whether to cherish or to lose your virginity is you own choice only, remember that nobody has a single right to push on you or emotionally blackmail you just. Don’t forget to listen to your both heart and mind before you make your final choice.
Trust is a crucial point in a relationship of two people, and it’s especially important when a person decides to lose his/her virginity with his/her partner. Trust takes time to develop, so make sure you have worked well enough on it before you make your good-bye-to-virginity decision.
Before making an ultimate decision to lose your virginity you must be well aware of the fact that first sex is a huge responsibility for both your partner and yourself, keep it somewhere in the back of your aroused mind and don’t forget to buy condoms.
The Importance of Saying Yes
There are cases when two people – a girl and a guy have been dating for a long time – say, for several years. They have been in love and don't imagine their future life without each other which means their trust is profoundly deep and practically unbreakable. Taking into account all these 'parameters', even random bystanders would state that there's no doubt between these two people whether to lose virginity with each other or not.
Indeed, sometimes it is, on the contrary, vitally important to say yes to the right person once you meet him or her. As a rule, a person acutely feels this 'rightness' coming from the person he or she dates. It manifests itself in good communication between a guy and a girl, stable trust which has been tasted by main criteria – time, mutual desire to be each other's first, mutual sexual attraction, all these things are fine criteria for an absolute lack of doubt regarding the issue of losing one's virginity. If a guy or a girl meets that special someone, he/she won't even have such questions as 'Am I ready?' or 'Should I lose it now' in mind. The only thing he or she will be globally sure of is the importance of saying yes to everything that's connected with the issue.