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What is virginity in the modern world of rather freewheeling views on sensuality - is it something each person must cherish and never lose till he/she feels that the rightest time has arrived, or maybe it’s just another stage of our life crossing which opens the door to an active sex life?
Whether to cherish or to lose your virginity is you own choice only, remember that nobody has a single right to push on you or emotionally blackmail you just. Don’t forget to listen to your both heart and mind before you make your final choice.
Trust is a crucial point in a relationship of two people, and it’s especially important when a person decides to lose his/her virginity with his/her partner. Trust takes time to develop, so make sure you have worked well enough on it before you make your good-bye-to-virginity decision.
Before making an ultimate decision to lose your virginity you must be well aware of the fact that first sex is a huge responsibility for both your partner and yourself, keep it somewhere in the back of your aroused mind and don’t forget to buy condoms.
The Importance of Saying No
There are cases when guys make the best of their girlfriends' innocence and make up all possible excuses and stories to trick them into having sex. Sometimes they even use alcohol to get access to their girlfriends' under-skirt area. Often a guy just pushes on a girl saying that everybody's having sex and that there's not a single reason why they must put this vital for any relationship sphere aside.
In these cases it is very essential for a virgin-girl (first and foremost) to realize that a guy who uses pressure is not worth dating let alone sleeping with. Sometimes young girls are not experienced enough and, blinded by love, even make a fatal attempt (read as: fatal mistake) of letting their boyfriends easily manipulate them and make the best of power they have over them.
That's why the perfect option for a girl would be getting rid of innocence before she says good-bye to her virginity, just to be able to make sure her boyfriend is not a jerk enough to push on her and blackmail her emotionally saying things like 'If you love me, you will do this with me'. Of course, to the experienced bystanders such tricks are obvious, however, young gullible girls just can't see the jerks through very often.
It is vitally important for a girl to say a firm, loud and clear N O whenever she feels at least a shadow of a doubt regarding her decision to lose her decision with someone – no matter what she promised to her boyfriend. If he isn't trustworthy enough to express understanding, a girl must be able to say adios amigo to him.