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What is virginity in the modern world of rather freewheeling views on sensuality - is it something each person must cherish and never lose till he/she feels that the rightest time has arrived, or maybe it’s just another stage of our life crossing which opens the door to an active sex life?
Whether to cherish or to lose your virginity is you own choice only, remember that nobody has a single right to push on you or emotionally blackmail you just. Don’t forget to listen to your both heart and mind before you make your final choice.
Trust is a crucial point in a relationship of two people, and it’s especially important when a person decides to lose his/her virginity with his/her partner. Trust takes time to develop, so make sure you have worked well enough on it before you make your good-bye-to-virginity decision.
Before making an ultimate decision to lose your virginity you must be well aware of the fact that first sex is a huge responsibility for both your partner and yourself, keep it somewhere in the back of your aroused mind and don’t forget to buy condoms.
First Sex – Issues to Consider
No matter how you treat the issue of your first sex, you still should consider a few issues before you cross the line of your sensual 'firstness'. Prior issue in your top-list of points to consider is the matter of safety – protection does matter whether it's your first or one hundred and first sexual intercourse, but when you are less (or un-) experienced, this issue must be paid utmost attention to.
Don't forget to talk to yourself and discuss all the important things with your inner self – whether you really want to lose your virginity, whether the person you have chosen to do it with is right or not, whether you trust him/her or not. Ask yourself regarding your true desires and make sure you go for it not because you just cannot say no or because you have promised something to someone.
Make certain your first time is your decision only, that you feel neither emotional blackmail (If you love me you'll do it for me) or pure pressure (Everybody's doing it, what are you afraid of?) is not coming from your partner. Take a close look at him or her in general – just to be one hundred per cent certain that you have made the right choice – heart may be blind sometimes, use your head when thinking the issue over as well.
First time shouldn't be hasty, well-planned and arranged in advance romantic atmosphere as opposed to the hasty make-out in the backseat of your car will greatly contribute to the quality of the whole things plus will probably even reward the two people with pleasant reverie on that notorious first time.