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What is virginity in the modern world of rather freewheeling views on sensuality - is it something each person must cherish and never lose till he/she feels that the rightest time has arrived, or maybe it’s just another stage of our life crossing which opens the door to an active sex life?
Whether to cherish or to lose your virginity is you own choice only, remember that nobody has a single right to push on you or emotionally blackmail you just. Don’t forget to listen to your both heart and mind before you make your final choice.
Trust is a crucial point in a relationship of two people, and it’s especially important when a person decides to lose his/her virginity with his/her partner. Trust takes time to develop, so make sure you have worked well enough on it before you make your good-bye-to-virginity decision.
Before making an ultimate decision to lose your virginity you must be well aware of the fact that first sex is a huge responsibility for both your partner and yourself, keep it somewhere in the back of your aroused mind and don’t forget to buy condoms.
First Sex: Advice for Females
No matter when, where, how or with whom a girl decided to lose her virginity, she invariably worries about her first time. Even though she may have a stable partner who is already (almost) her husband, even though the time seems to have come (she is of adequate age for doing it), even though she knows everything around will be perfect and romantic when they have her first sex, she still worries, that's why a guy's/man's main task is reducing her worries to the minimum.
Ask your partner to take things slowly in case you feel he may overlook the issue that you are a virgin (and in case you still want to lose your virginity with such a forgetful guy). Ask him to use a condom even if you take birth control pills, that will prevent extra risks and worries of yours.
Choose a nice place, the one where you know perfectly well that you won't be disturbed or destructed – these things are essential because they will contribute to your feeling less nervous than if your privacy were disturbed.
Be especially careful during the intercourse and make sure you are feeling comfortable in the process, in case you aren't – fit your behavior to your most comfortable condition.
Don't feel too disappointed in case your first time bliss wasn't reached, learning to achieve peaks of pleasure takes time and experience – you have lots of time to get lots of experience with your partner in order to learn to be able to get to the peak of your common pleasure.